Although it seems that the closer you get to your big day the more seems to happen, know that it will all be okay!! Every bride experiences stress, but how you handle it is key. Today we want to discuss not taking your stress out on your vendors. Although you are having quite an ordeal with your wedding, keep in mind that your vendors are dealing with that same ordeal with at least 10 other brides. So follow these rules to keep things cool, cordial, and smooth with vendors at "go-time."
1. Communicate, communicate. When things change let them know and allow them time to respond, knowing that you may not be their only client.
2. Be respectful. Stepping out of line with childish name calling, demands, and hiding behind friends, family or your wedding planner will not give you the result you are looking for.
3. Be definite. Yes life changes, but do your best to stick to the original request, because although vendors will try to accommodate, it may not always turn out as originally thought due to last minute changes.
In the end, the Golden Rule applies- Do unto your vendor as you want them to do at your wedding.
Happy Planning and Luxe Luv!
